The Twin Flame Runner Phenomenon

The Twin Flame Runner Phenomenon is pretty common at the moment as more and more twin flames connect and run into the intensity and also the fears brought out by the strength of the feelings.

But not all twin flames run. Some don’t . They meet are both ready and things flow. So this is not something which happens to everyone

One partner gets overwhelmed or feels like they are loosing the self and decide they need to get away to reconnect with themselves or to get away from these strong feelings.  Often this can leave the other bewildered and hurt and feeling very abandoned.  There is little they can do because if they chase they will find themselves seeing the other run more.

The twin flame runner needs to heal and work on themselves so they can be ready for  such a strong relationship. Understanding the twin flame runner’s perspective means understanding that they’re not doing this to hurt you.

The separation stage between twin flames usually means they need to heal and make peace with their past.

How to deal with being the Person who is not running

Stop chasing the runner and stop trying to get them to give you answers. The reason for this is because they run away from your further. They need to steP away from the intensity and calm down

Give yourself plenty of self love and heal from the sense of hurt. It really is all you can do. Also talk with someone who understands this as it can be hard for other people who dont understand twin flames to relate to your depth of feelings. Also look at love from a perspective of unconditional love. You cna love someoen who is not with you when you are loving forma  spiritual point of view.

You will find peace and understanding within yourself and often the other will return as even though they have run they will miss you and the connection. It may take some time and when they do take it slow , give it time and get closer at a pace you can both handle. try not to talk about the long term too much and enjoy each other in the present,

Don’t abandon them either. Leave the door to your Heart wide open for them to come back. When they do act as if they were never gone, as if you just saw them yesterday. Resist the urge to question them about it and for heavens sake don’t make the mistake of blasting them or they will be gone again in a flash.

If they dont return then remember you have know each other for eons and will connect again in a future lifetime. You can be happy and have a loving partner with a strong soul connection and have a true life partner without being with your twin flame.

The Mirror 

Our twin’s physical self s like a perfect mirror which shows us who we are. there is nowhere to go but within us to find that light that they so beautifully reflect. but the mind likes to believe that we are separated and therefore creates a longing to be with this person who seems to be the source of such amazing loving feelings. But really love is an energy and not outside of us

If you are the one being left by the Twin flame Runner

In order to stop chasing, its best to let go of all expectations and attachments regarding any possible outcomes of our twin flame relationship. this is also the core of true love: allowing the one you love to be as they are, not wanting to change them in any way, accepting them as they are and accepting your bond with them as it is.

The Twin Flame runner may feel a wide range of emotions about you. They can deny their feelings, they can be in pain, they may be going through their own challenges as well. You may hear that they are running because they love you or are protecting you. But mostly it’s an overwhelm and too many intense feelings.

If things don’t work out at this time with your Twin Flame

You can decide to move on, but the truth is, if they are your true Twin Flame, you’re already one with each other. Moving on, stepping back, trying to forget them may only delay Union and peace in your relationship.

The way to “move on” is actually to heal through. To accept and to focus on unconditional love rather than personal love

If You are the twin Flame Runner

Try and communicate about your feelings of being overwhelmed rather than getting defensive. Spend time by yourself and give yourself time to process it all before you run.

If you really cant cope maybe you will run but please know that this will not make you happy . It will feel hard but depending on your awareness try and talk about it before so the other has some understanding of what is going on for you.

Runners are not running because of the lack of love but actually too much love, and afraid of acceptance with their other half. Chasers may not understand why the runners run away and feel sometimes like fools chasing after someone that is in such turmoil and resistance.

When the Runner becomes the Chaser

Runners are not always runners at the start, the runner phase many times can be reversed. I have seen many times the runner and chaser roles reverse and then re-reverse until they finally both become stayers, once they are both ready and fully awakened.

This is the eventual outcome and will happen no matter how long it takes.

When the Twin Flame Runner Dynamic stops

When the twin flame chaser stops chasing and teh runner stops running , something miraculous happens:

You stop looking for love to complete you. You discover you were always complete

From that place, real union can begin to take root. Not the kind that comes from desperation, but the kind that comes from peace and true self-love. Twin Flame love is not the kind you chase. It is the kind that finds you when you finally come home to yourself.

Once this whole cycle stops the  the relationship starts to flow an dis one of two people who truly see and support each other . Which is the potential of Twin Flames

My love and blessings to you Franziska

I also made a You Tube Video or two on the subject here is a link to my channel. Twin Flame Runner 

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